Is it difficult for us to eat together?
We worked for more than 30 years . We were very difficult to eat together.

. We eat individualy.

But we retired this year. We have time to eat together.But my husband want to eat anytime when he wants.

When I cooked meals, I called him "meals are ready"He never comes soon. All meals get cold. If I make effort to cook nice meals. It's a waste of time. He never eats soon.And today he said "Stop botherring."

It is my first experience . He never say "you are noisy." I decided from now I never prepare meals for him early. When he comes to the table I prepare.
I think we are same jobs. I never asked him to give me money. I payed by myself. But I cooked. I cleaned I washed .It is not good .

Now we have time .He can prepare for himself. I want to prepare. But he never accept my time. I think I don't need to prepare for him.