After having a baby, that means that you have to lost almost your spare time, your hobby or your past life. Your have to devote to a new job, that is how to make your baby grow up healthly and
intelligently. I have a lot of hobbies, for example: repair something. But now I almost couldnot catch enough time to do it, as you know, when you are trying to check a problem and fix it, you
would spend a lot of time, after you had found where is the point, you have to do it step and step, this also waste a lot of time, but the biggest problem is you have to open your repairing object
in a quite big place and keep them at there for some days, and you have to watch the baby's moving, keep him out of touching. Afterall, you have to change yourself's life. Otherway, we could say, you have to follow and round your baby's life.
I have stopped to writing for some days. There are some reasons, but they maybe not reasons. Today I order my brain to write again, the new reason is I couldnot make my readers down.
I couldnot say I donot like to write, but my time isnot enough during this period. My uncle has completed his surgery. Several tumors were found in his large intestine, and the link between stomach and small intestine had found some ulcer, too. Some postoperative intestinal adhesion part were still there. The luck is that he has done the surgery, the dislucky is his has been made a lot of cutting parts(9? or over?), new 's coming chances are as growing as cuttings. But what could we say? Believe these treatments or not? We donot another selection. When a patient has faced a lot of pains and slowly vanished the fighting power in the heart, he would just looking for a way to get away, that is it. Donot need to say which is better, best way is just quickly to die, that is the way to escape that he think!! That is it...
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Talking about our baby. Recently, he has got a lot of progresses.
1st, on last Wednesday(2012-04-18), I found that he could understand those light objects couldnot make big sounds and when he throw them on the ground, he donot scare and close the eyes again. (he is very likely to throw objects on the ground, and befote that every time when he throw, he would close his eys shortly.)
2nd, on last Friday(2012-04-20)evening, he sounded "e, e", then pointed to the clock with digital; then sounded "e, e", and pointed to the clock with needle. I thought he wanted to ask me why this is a clock(we just told him a clock before), and that is too. Then, I had to explain it to: this is a digital clock, that is a needle clock.
3rd, since last week, when I went out with him together, he would lead me to some places that my mother lead him and maybe he think there are funny.
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So late today, Riko ask me to go to bed. aha, I just write these till now, tomorrow I will continue.
Today, it is the holiday of "qingming" （清明節）。 It is the day that we go to offer sacrifices to our ancestors, in front of tomb or bone ashashes of them. (It is different from Japan, every box of ashashes or bone isnot be put in one big tomb, they are seperated.) Reality, we arenot seriously controlled to go to just in this day, we could go to in the whole lunar month of "qingming" holiday. If your relationship has passed and this is the 1st "qingming" holiday（清明節） that just coming, we must go to a month earlier than the 4th lunar month, that is the 3rd lunar month.
Our lovely grand-pa has passed away 4 months in last year, all of us missed him...
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My uncle's treatment by traditional massage has stepped in the 60days today. His illness showed sometimes good and sometimes bad. Tomorrow, he will go to see the doctor for checking again, I wish he would resume soon.
Sorry for all, I donot write some time. Maybe I am busy, I have thrown into all my spare time. After the 1st 5 days, his pain has gone, but coming last days, he became better then worst, now this is the 3 rd time. His underbelly has some bigger, so...
God bless good gay!