興味津々心理学

アメリカ発の臨床心理学博士、黒川隆徳によるあなたの日常の心理学。三度の飯よりサイコセラピーが好き。

Romance in Relationships

2019-06-28 | カップル・夫婦・恋愛心理学
“But romance in relationships is not cultivated through a resolving of tensions, the discovery of a secret, a labored struggle to contrive novelty. The cultivation of romance in relationships requires two people who are fascinated by the ways in which, individually and together, they generates forms of life they hope they can count on. It entails a tolerance of the fragility of those hopes, woven together from realities and fantasies, and an appreciation of the ways in which, in the rich density of contemporary life, realities often become fantasy and fantasies often become reality.” —-Stephen A. Mitchell