怖い話

This is a real story that I heard by my male friend.
When he was drinking at the bar, a man sitting at next seat said to him suddenly.

"Do you know my wallet?"
Then, my friend embarrassed when hearing of such a thing which he could have never known.
He answered.
"I ……I don't know."

And, the man asked him once more.
"Do you know my wallet? I made sure it was in my hip pocket, when entering here. "

My friend is a decent guy.
If he were a hasty man, he must be angry, at the moment.
But, my friend repeated this word calmly.
"I don't know."

The man whose wallet disappeared was still doubting my friend for several minutes.

But, eventually, the rude man renounced sticking with the decent guy.
He went out of the bar.

If you and I, or common people were noticing that my and your, or their wallet was missed, it's the best manner to ask the shop staff how to find out it.
In that case, the shop staffs would seek it around there, such as a entrance, a hall, and a toilet.
It's the rudest behavior in the shop that a customer begin to inquire other customer in the same place without even a substantial confidence.

The man had a mad behavior, furthermore, he couldn't recognize it was the bad way.

After all, my friend talked to me next way.
"The man seemed to stick with where his wallet was, early.
However, he began to change his object into me rather than his wallet, since he saw I embarrassed.
Because he was never willing to ask the staff there in order to seek his wallet.
I think that his important thing is to stick with other people aggressively."

My friend analyses this incident this way.
Also, I think that the man can't manage his belongings, and he can't recognize other's rights, too!

子供と大人

These days, I left a company that I have worked over a decade.
while I was working there, I have hardly met adult people.
I have repeated meeting my students at a class and having a time with my son at home.
So, I improved communication skills with children.
But, I have been rusty so as to talk with adult people at work, particularly, at a office.

For example, when adults communicate with others, they pay an attention to some distance between themselves and others.
But, most children would more likely to socialize with others than adults.
Children are simply pleased with receiving something, but adults might feel it a meanings.
I have handed in various joyful things to my students when being at my class, in order to encourage them to study all day.
And I had smiled everytime when I was at a class.
Now, I might be too cheerful to be in an office ―― if I were in an office.

I must recall manners which adults get used to have, as soon as I can.